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What is the most annoying stereotype people say about the country or place where you're from?
People think that all southerners are uneducated rednecks. To be honest, there are some people I would classify like that, and some are be proud of it. Just because you are from the south does not mean that you are prejudiced or intolerant of others. And I have to believe that not everyone out in California is a dingy blond without any substance. Some of us are actually intelligent people that embrace diversity. I was born and raised in North Carolina. I have friends from all different backgrounds and they all bring something to the table. I also appreciate different cultures and enjoy learning about other people's traditions. The truth of the matter is that the world needs all kinds of people.
What parenting tip do you swear by?
I don't have kids yet, but there are some things that will drive me crazy about other people's kids... Please give your children vegetables when they are toddlers! I hate to hear parents talk about how their kids don't eat and in the same breath they are talking about how they don't cook for them, the kids will have a microwave kids meal, easy mac or some other processed sliver of nutrition. My mom cooked dinner just about every night and we ate it. There wasn't a fit about it or any complaint. We all eat our vegetables now and we are all pretty healthy. Of course there are some foods that your kids just won't like, but you have to give it a try. For instance, I absolutely hate sweet potatoes. Every time mom made them I would gag. So, after trying them a few different ways, mom never made me eat them again. Kids today will pitch a fit (because they are in a mood or just want McDonalds) and the parents just say "they don't like it" and kids never get the chance to really try it. Then, these kids grow up to be those annoying adults that only eat hot dogs and macaroni. And, just because you don't like a certain food doesn't mean that you shouldn't allow your child to experience and form their own opinion. Recently, we went out to dinner with friends who have a 5yr old. She ordered spaghetti and took two bites. When asked if they needed a to-go box, they said no because she won't eat it. Ok, the kid likes spaghetti and you just payed for it but since the 5yr old is running the show, she doesn't have to eat dinner at all. Not acceptable. Now, most parents don't cook every night busy kids have sports and dance and all these things going on. Isn't that more of a reason for them to have a healthy meal? Bottom line, my kids will not be eating fast food every night (I'm praying they never learn about McDonald's) and they will try all sorts of cuisine. On a side note... we took my nieces and nephew to a Japanese steakhouse a few weeks ago where they cook in front of you. Amazingly the kids tried to eat their meal with chopsticks (they are 2, 3, 4 and 5). The oldest, Cameron, was able to finish without even picking up his fork. He even asked to try sushi!
Are you tired of those sissy 'friendship' poems that always sound good, but never actually come close to reality? Well, here is a series of promises that actually speak of true friendship.
When you are sad -- I will jump on the person who made you sad like a spider monkey.
When you are blue -- I will try to dislodge whatever is choking you.
When you smile -- I will know you are plotting something that I must be involved in.
When you are scared -- I will rag on you about it every chance I get.
When you are worried -- I will tell you horrible stories about how much worse it could be until you quit whining.
When you are confused -- I will use little words.
When you are sick -- Stay away from me until you are well again. I don't want whatever you have.
When you fall -- I will point and laugh at your clumsiness.
Friendship is like peeing your pants-- everyone can see it, but only you can feel the warmth.
Submitted by Kadeeae.
Recently, I went shopping for a new bag. I'm always drawn to the small bags that don't hold much, they're just so much cuter. Anyway, my mom, sister and friends are always telling me that I need to get a "big girl" purse. So, I picked up a nice big green (very close to Jim Henson's Kermit) bag. I've used for a week so far. Since it's so much bigger than my other bags, I'm actually carrying around a lot more crap than I usually do...
Ok, so you can see I have my planner still in the bag because it wouldn't fit on the table:
- wallet
- glasses *now required to drive*
- clear fingernail polish
- keys - notice the gym tag that rarely gets used
- a pen - can you believe just one?!
- paint samples - planning on painting downstairs
- Blistex Lip Infusion - I'm addicted to the stuff
- scrunchy - to pull my crazy hair out of face
- gum
- tampon - in case of a surprise visit
- raisins - never know when you need a snack
- Bed Head After Party - to refresh my locks; the bottle is kinda phallic don't you think?
- water bottle - gotta stay hydrated
- an orange - stress reliever
- book I'm reading
- ID badge for work
- Blackberry - my lifeline
What do you do when you find yourself with nothing to do?
Submitted by Cassie.
Answer the Question of the Day...
So I got my car fixed and had to go back to get the alignment done because it wasn't done when all of the other body repairs were done. I had noticed earlier there was nail in one of my tires, so we asked about plugging the tire. They told us that it couldn't be fixed, if they removed the nail we'd have to get a new tire. My husband realized that the button on the driver's side door to roll down the window on the passenger side did not work. (The passenger door was replaced after my accident). They swore that it had nothing to do with replacing the door, too much of a coincidence in my book cause it worked fine before the accident. Anyway, my stepdad is a mechanic, has his own shop. We took the car to him to look at the tire. He removed the nail and fixed it, no problem. We took the car back to the place doing the alignment because the car was still pulling to the side. They checked it out again... then they came out to tell us they removed the nail and fixed the tire. Really? Lie right to our faces!! They didn't do anything with the nail, it was already removed before we took the car back! Then we ended up taking the car to the dealership to get the window fixed and wouldn't you know all they had to do was reset it since the door had been replaced! Seriously... I can't believe it. This is exactly why people hate dealing with these people, they lie!
If money and time were not an issue, what would you like to learn how to do?
Submitted by jacolily.
Interior Design... I would love to have fun decorating other people's houses with other people's money. The designers on Extreme Home Makeover seem to have a blast!
Alarm clock aside, what is the first gadget you use in the morning?
My Blackberry... I use it as my second alarm. I also check my calendar and the weather to figure out what to wear to work. I think its my lifeline now, I use it for everything.